People have always been an inevitable social pressure, such as home, get married and have children but such ideas are changing. Until the middle-aged married for the first time the American people reached a record high, nearly half of the 85 before the age of 30, married to the idea is not interested, so now"Single noble"More than ever before. Is this a bad thing?
Bella said after reading the 814 published papers, this situation is because most of the studies have focused on married people, while only single as a control.
"The lonely thoughts tend to live alone First impressions are strongest shielding benefits." Bella, a scientist at the University of California, said.
She presented her findings at the 124th annual meeting of the American Psychological Society:"It's time for a more accurate understanding of single people and single life, and that is the real strength and resilience of single people, as well as the things that make sense of their lives."
From this simple research survey, Bella found that single life is not so dark as people think, but just the opposite.
She cites a study that single people pay more attention to meaningful work than married people, another study found that the relationship between the men left with their parents, brothers and sisters 3S lady and friend is closer than married people, and married people gradually returned to their marriage the little house.
Single people not only have more autonomy, but also have more opportunities to increase their value.
A study of a single person in 2009 shows that,Lifelong singles are very independent, and the spirit of independence helps them to cope with negative experiences. For married people, vice versa.
According to the U.S. Bureau of labor statistics data show that in 2014 the United States over the age of sixteen unmarried people are 124 million, which is higher than the half of the adult population, and in 1976 the U.S. Bureau of labor statistics report shows that adult unmarried people accounted for the proportion of the adult population is only 37.4%. In accordance with this trend, we should be worried, or should be happy?
Bella said,Some people get married life will be better, but some people will be better, no one kind of situation will always be better than the other.
If you are worried about being single, you'd better try to make a single life full and use all the free time to explore and understand yourself. Mr. Right will come at the right time.
No decision must be permanent, after all, there are so many benefits of single.
"Americans are more than ever to pursue the best way of life for them, and there is no blueprint for a better life." Bella said, the most important is not what other people think, how to say, but we can find the true self and be able to let us live out the best of their own place and space."